I know there are quite a few posts in quite a short period of time, but this blog is my way of putting memories down on paper, and I thought of another thing today that I want to write down (so I can print it out and one day just stick this in her baby book).
Sarah was not Sarah for the first two or three days of her life. It took the birth registrar three visits to our hospital room before we agreed to sign the paper that gave her a name, and even that it was with some reluctance. We found out that Sarah was a girl when I was 19 weeks pregnant, and one of the reasons that we wanted to know is that I am the worlds worst decision maker and we thought we'd need that much time to come up with a name. I think perhaps less time might have been useful.
A list of the finalists and why they weren't chosen:
Teresa/Theresa (we were leaning toward the first spelling): I love the name Teresa, but even more I love the nickname Tessa. T.J. was fine with Teresa, but he didn't like Tessa and we figured that calling our baby girl by two different names might have been a bit confusing.
Molly: A late entry into the field, but once I found out that Molly is the number one dogs name in America, I couldn't name my daughter that. And as soon as we ruled out Molly, my aunt and two of our nurses said they knew Molly dogs.
Caroline (Callie): Callie is a name we both liked, but we couldn't agree on a long name form of it. Calista is too Calista Flockhart (Sarah, you'll have no idea who she is in 20 years) and Calliope reminds me of an organ grinder monkey. I did look up that Caroline can be a long name for Callie, but like the Teresa issue, it was a stretch and therefore not a winner. This name though may come up again if Sarah ever has a sister.
Hannah/Leah: I still love both of these names, but T.J. said I couldn't name her after the Gosslin children.
A bunch of really weird modern names like Hensley: Growing up as a Jennifer that was so trendy in the 70s and early 80s, but I wanted a name that would stand the test of time.
Haley/Hailey: Rhymes with Bailey. And though I offered to rename our dog, I didn't want the first 8 years or so confusing the dog and the baby. I do that already and Toby/Bailey sound nothing like Sarah.
Elisabeth/Elizabeth: This ended up being her middle name as it's a great family name. My grandmother is Elizabeth, T.J.'s sister is Elizabeth and my mom is Mary Elizabeth. But he didn't want to use it as a first name.
So we ended up with
Sarah. Classic, biblical, and means princess. I wanted a name outside of the top 20 (it was 21 in 2009), a name that is popular but not #1. I think we did well.
And as an added bonus, Sarah fell to #30 in popularity in 2010.